Kaden Andrew Perez was welcomed into this world on February 26, 2009. He was adored and loved by tons of family, friends, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents and his Mommy and Daddy. He was a joy in our lives and was always full of laughter, smiles, giggles and curiosity. On December 12, 2009, our little Kaden was called on by the Lord. We were blessed to have him and to know such an amazing little spirit. May he rest with the Lord and guide us all as we continue our journey in life. We will see him again. Our little angel will watch over us all.
Kadens service and celebration of his life was amazing. God surrounded us with love and support and we said our goodbyes for now, we will soon see him again.
Love you Kaden baby!
Poem written by Kadens Great Aunt Kathy
Dear Mommy,
Today I woke up in a brand new place,
An angel came and she had your face.
She held me in her arms so tight
She held me through the day and night.
And Daddy,
Guess what I could see?
Another angel just for me!
He said he loved me just like you
And I know you still love me too!
And guess what else? I can fly around!
I can play in the clouds and the wind I found.
I’m not sad here, there’s lots of love
And we can see you from above.
I have come home, God called me here!
I fly into His grace.
I’m with Him now, I’m full of joy
And you should see this place!
Love,
Kaden Andrew Perez
December 12, 2009
Many people have offered their time, services and meals. The Perez and Butler families are asking for your thoughts and prayers at this time. If you would like to make a donation to the Perez' to help them stay on their feet, any amount is greatly appreciated. Thank You!
Donations to Perez Family
If you have any questions or would like to contribute in other ways, you may contact Erin Castellano (Andrews Sister). 951-768-5234
Andrew, Sarah and Kaden
Prayer from a friend
"Father I come before you with a broken heart, for Sarah and Andrew and all of their family and friends that have been touched by this accident. I pray that you settle their hearts in knowing that You are taking care of baby Kaden, and the situation which is awfully hard to handle, you will handle it with devine grace and mercy. I pray that you let them grieve without feeling down on themselves, angry, or guilty. Let their tears be tears of joy that baby Kaden is in Heaven with You God, the best place he could be. Give them strength to forge on through these days, remembering the great times they had with Kaden, though his time here on earth was short it was full of love and people who loved him, that is what matters. Lord, take away all of the what ifs that come to their minds and assure them that it was Kadens' time to go home to his Father and one day he will be reunited with Sarah and Andrew. Lord, I pray that you give Sarah and Andrew continued support through family and friends whatever their needs may be. That through love and faith in You, God, and each other that things will get better. Amen."
-Amber Rash
-Amber Rash
Tree at Mary Henley Park in Hemet
In Memory of Kaden
Kaden Andrew
to our boy from daddy we love you oh so much your the most beautiful boy in the world and we shall never forget you or let your name die in vain! we were sooo happy to have you for the time we did especially daddy being gone so many late nights but promised you ill be home the very next day! we love you so much and will never stop!
ReplyDeleteBaby Mommy loves you more than you know. I'll sing you baby baluga everynight before bed and bonk daddies head for you! You where the greatest blessing anyone could ever ask for and I thank GOD for giving us those short nine months together. You are my heart, and always will be! I'll never forget those beautiful blue eyes and amazing smile, Ill like you forever ill love you for always as long as we're living and beyond my baby youll be!! XO. I love you baby boy!
Sarah,
ReplyDeletei know you and i dont really know eachother that well. We've talked once b/c your brothers dog attacked a cat. but i am very sorry for the loss of your little boy. he was your pride and joy, im sure. but i want you to know that im here for you. im just down the street, if you need anyone to talk to. kaden will be missed dearly.
Sarah & Andrew, as I said before, I am deeply sorry & so heartbroken by the tragic loss of baby Kaden. He's been on my mind since the first post that I saw about what happened. I hope that you'll be able to find hope & peace in all this someday & again, as I said before, if either of you ever need anything, anything at all...feel free to let me know. I'll do whatever I can.
ReplyDeleteNow, this little part of my note is for Kaden. Little man, even though we never met, I still feel like you hold a special place in my heart. From the second that I heard the news, my heart began to break for your mommy & daddy. I have a sweet & precious little girl & I wouldn't even want to imagine what your mommy & daddy have gone through these past few days after God decided to call you back up to heaven to walk beside him & his other beautiful little angels. I hope that your mommy & daddy can find some closure & peace with what has happened to you, so young & innocent. I know it will be a struggle & sometimes they'll feel like they won't be able to take another step forward. But you will be there, always & forever, by their side to guide them & make them see that they'll make it through it all together. You brought so much joy into everyone's lives that got even a chance to see those beautiful blue eyes & gorgeous smile in pictures. You've touched the hearts of everyone you met & left your footprints there to remind us of you. I know, in everyway possible, you'll be well taken care of up there with the big guy & all your family that you're surrounded by now. We love you, Kaden. Even those of us who never got the chance to meet you in person, you will always hold that special place in our hearts. RIP & God Speed Little Angel
My heart has been broken for you since I saw your posts earlier today. I pray that God grants you peace in this terrible time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything please let me know. Kaden will be greatly missed and by you and Andrew the most.
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Sarah and Drew..you guys are soo amazing!! i pray for you both everyday, for god to give you strength and peace!! I know that there is nothing i can say right now to take away your pain!! i love you both!! and i will be there to bug you and make sure your making it..I also know that you have herd it so many times by now, but i am here for you...anything you need!! please dont hesitate to call!! and please, please stay strong!! you guys are a wonderful mommy and daddy!!!
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DaLaS
Sarah & Andrew. I know this is the hardest thing you will ever have to go thru in your life. This is something no one should ever have to go thru because it is just not fair. Just alwyas know, Kaden is very very loved. I know we live across the country, but if I could I would be there right now just to be able to give you any support you may need. I am truley heartbroken by what has happened and if I could have traded places with him I would have in a second because no one should have to go thru this kind of pain. Always remember, he will always be your baby and you will always be his mommy and daddy. He will always live on in your hearts. As I have said before, you have one amazing little angel looking after ya'll right now. Sarah, you are a strong person and I know as hard as it is, you will pull thru this the best you can. I just wish there was something I could do to help take the pain away, but I know theres not.. I wish I could turn back time and make everything better..but I know I cant... All I can do is give you any support you may need. So please, don't hesitiate to ask. I am here for yo if you need to talk or cry, or vent.. anything.
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-Kira
Sarah,
ReplyDeleteI've met you through Dalas & seeing you in the salon. My heart is hurting for you both. I am truly sorry that you have this pain in your hearts. And I know that no words can make this better, but please take some kind of comfort in knowing that a LOT of people are praying for ALL of you. Kaden touched a lot of hearts by just being Kaden. I have not been able to stop thinking about all of you since saturday. My heart goes out to all of you. Stay strong. I will pray for ALL of you.
Dear sweet family. I am so sorry for your loss. It is the morst heartwrenching and devastating loss anyone can experience. I have been there myself, a child at 3 weeks old. Hold on tight to eachother, be eachothers rock. Lean on your friends and family and especially those who will listen to you talk about your sweet baby. Talking about him will help you heal. Find those who will listen when you need to talk. It helps so much. We have a hummingbird that started to visit us after our daughter passed. Our older daughter named her Belle and now whenever we have a hummingbird we think of our angel in heaven watching over us and saying hello. This next year will be very tough. It will get easier but the pain will never go away. I will pray for you to get through this. There is a society called "Compassionate Friends" that helps grieving parents. Is is immenseley helpful for support. Check them out online. Once again I am sorry for your loss. Know you are loved, you will get through this and will find a way to be happy again. All my love and prayers- Gillian
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ReplyDeleteI always enjoyed reading your status on myspace regarding your baby boy. Today my heart is torn to know that he passed. He was obviously the center of your world & your company when your hubby was away. My condolenses go out to you and your family. Kaden was one of the most beautiful babies ever. I know he will be your little angel, looking out for you throughout the rest of your days. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. I wish you the best. I hope that God provides you with strength at this time. You are such a great person. I'm here if you ever need anything at all. I'm so sorry for your loss. I mean this from the bottom of my heart.
-Lucia
Andrew & Sarah,
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me. I heard about your horrible tragedy through Kris & Christie. Christie is my aunt. I just want you to know how very sorry I am. Although I never knew either of you personally, as a mom myself I can only imagine what you are going through, there truly are no words. I have shed many tears and said a thousand prayers for you both. Now I pray God would wrap His loving arms around you both and comfort you in these days ahead. Again, I am so sorry and will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
-Tabitha Blake
Kaden, Auntie Shellie loves you soooooo much baby boy! You are the greatest blessing God could have given to any of us. Your mommy and daddy love you more than you could ever know. But we know that God will care for you now and will find a way to get us all through losing you. You must be the most beautiful angel in Heaven because you were the most beautiful baby boy on this Earth. I miss you so much already and always will. You'll always be my favorite nephew, and always the most perfect little angel in our worlds.
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ReplyDeleteThere is no explantion.
There is no reason.
There is no blame.
The intesity of your grief is a relection of the intesity of your love.
Feel your grief and know you are loved!
D&S
Drew, Sarah, Jackie, Jeff, Libby,and every other family member,
ReplyDeleteI am sooo sory for what you are having to go through. My heart aches for you and your beautiful baby. I send you my prayers hoping that in some way they may comfort you. May God help you to be strong. Being there for one another and supporting each other is all that we can offer you. For there are no words I'm sure that can take the pain away.
My heart has been broken since the moment Sieana told me about Kaden. I have cried many tears for you two, Sarah and Andrew. May God wrap his arms around the two of you and help you through this hard time. You guys are in my prayers. Kaden is around you two and he will keep you guys strong. I know it's easier said than done but try to smile about the wonderful memories you have had with your beautiul baby boy. I know I messaged you about this but if you need anything at all give me a call, I would be more than happy to help in anyway I could.
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Sarah,
ReplyDeleteIm sooo sorry about what has happened to your baby boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time.
To his mommy, daddy and grandmas/grandpas, I am so sad and sorry for the loss of this dear child. I can only imagine what it is like to see his little shoes lying around, his blanky, his crib, his smell on his clothes, his favorite toy- please wrap yourself in Kaden's blanky and smell and love him. He is with our Lord and will be with you again. I pray that God gives you His peace that passes all understanding. Much love, prayers, thoughts to you and your family. Sincerely, another mom.
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are broken as there is nothing that can be said to comfort or ease the pain of your tragic loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
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The Kenyatta's
Clearly Kayden is well loved by his parents, grandparents, extended family and anyone that ever met him. I had the privilege of meeting Kayden last month and I remember thinking he had an AMAZING smile. The loss is unimaginable. Our hearts cry out to God on your behalf.
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My heart just breaks for you. I cannot imagine the nightmare you are living in, but I wanted you to know that you have one more person praying for you and your family. May God rest a calming hand on your aching hearts.
ReplyDeleteMy heart and prayers go out to you. May God fill you with a strong sense of peace in your time of trouble. May He place a calm over your emotions and protect your mind from wondering into negativity. May He blanket you with His love and Care. Amanda Vickers
ReplyDeleteMay God hold you in the palm of his hand and guide you through this terrible time.
ReplyDeleteIam soo sorry about what happened to your little baby boy. My family send you our love and prayers to your family. May god help you to be strong.God bless.
ReplyDeleteTHE LORD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS.MY HEART IS WITH YOU ALL IN THIS TIME AND ALL MY PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU.HE WAS A BLESSING TO THIS EARTH AND A BEAUTIFUL REFLECTION OF YOU BOTH.LET HIM NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AND THOUGHT OF EVERYDAY.PLEASE LET ME KNOW ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP.JESSICA BENNETT
ReplyDeletethank you everyone for your love and support through al of this! it helps so much to know that you all care so much for this sweet little boy. we love you and miss you Kaden! i just wish you were still home!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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daddy!
My heart aches for you everday baby boy, I just want to feel your hugs and your kisses,I want to wake up and hear your laugh, and silly little screams and see that smile!! So many people love you baby boy, your amazing smile touched so many lives and I know you continue to do so in heaven, keep your auntie melissa busy but be a good boy too! I love you more than anything, know that one day me and daddy will be there with you, but for now you live in our hearts and in the hearts of so many others!! You will never ever leave my heart or my mind, it's forever yours!! I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER AND 2 DAYS!!XOXOXOXOXOX
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Andrew & Sarah,
ReplyDeleteYou do not know me nor I you but as a parent and a grandparent that has lost a grandchild ..my heart aches for you all. Know that God does not allow us to go through ANYTHING that He cannot take us through or turn for good. I know you cannot imagine how or what the good could ever possibly be...neither can I. But I do trust God's word and I know HE will Carry you through.
Andrew and Sarah be there for each other,cry,scream,get angry,and yell but always continue to support and love each other because that love is what Kaden is made of. Kaden is a part of each of you and without one of you he would have never been...so stay faithfull to your love and turn to God and He will get you through this.
I am praying for you both and your families,
Andrew and Sarah, We have had your entire family in our thoughts hearts and prayers this week, and although we can not be at the services, we send our love and support to all of you. There are just no words at a time like this that express the heartbreak we feel at the loss of such a precious little soul. He was blessed to have you as his parents, and although his time on earth was too short, he will live forever in the memory of the people he touched.
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HI GUYS, MY NAME IS NICOLE, IV MET ANDREW A COUPLE OF TIME THROUGH RACING BUT MAMA IV NEVER MET YOU, BUT ALL IV HEARD IS HOW GOOD OF A MOMMY YOU WERE....... I CANNOT EVEN POSSIBALLY IMAGINE WHAT YOU BOTH ARE GOING THROUGHT. I JUST CAN JUST FEEL A LITTLE TINY OUNCE IN MY HEART. I HAVE TWO MYSELF A 6 MONTH OLD AND A TWO TEAR OLD AND OMG IM JUST IN A STREAM OF TEARS FOR YOU GUYS, MY HEART IS COMPLETLY BROKEN FOR YOU. THERE IS A BOOK CALLED ((90 MINUTES IN HEAVEN)) ITS A GREAT BOOK THAT I REALLY THINK WOULD BRING YOUR SPIRITS UP ABOUT DEATH AND WHERE YOU GO AFTER YOUR PASSING. HE REALLY IS IN A GREAT PLACE AND YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS KEEP THAT IN MIND......ALWAYS! I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH MORE I CAN SAY IM SOOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS....... IM SORRY.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas my baby Kaden! I love you and mikss you so much. I hope you are celebrating in Heaven. We miss you. -Auntie Erin
ReplyDeleteI miss seeing your smile every morning and hearing you laugh when I pick you up! I miss you sooooooooooooooooooooooooo much bub! <3 mommy
ReplyDeleteVery sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I too lost a son, his name was Andrew. Not a day goes by that I don't think about and miss him. He would have been 9 in April. Your son's memory will live on in you forever. I will pray for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHow blessed you are that the Lord entrusted such a beautiful angel to you, for his brief time on this earth. Your time with Kaden was short, much shorter than you both would have chosen. Your heartbreak is unimaginable... We pray for you both, that the Lord will wrap his loving arms around you and give you His peace and strength in these lonely days without him. We also pray that, in those precious memories you have of Kaden, you will find joy. And you will share how Kaden's life is a testiment of our Lord's love so others may know His love through Kaden's life. God's comfort and love to you both Andrew and Sarah.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE YOU BABY BOY HAPPY FIRST BITHDAY AS A HAPPY LITTTLE ANGLE! i love you bubbba youll never be forgot!!!! i miss you and give anything to hold you once more!!! xxoxoxoxoxoxo
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daddy!
Happy Birthday Baby Boy! I miss you so much! It was great to see you today, it's so beautiful and peaceful there. Thank you for sharing all of your smiles with me, that's something I'll hold on to forever!
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Aunt Molly
My Bubba man! Happy first birthday. I am soooo sooo sad that I didn't get the chance to share it with you here on earth but I am sure the angels threw you a great party! I miss you more than words can describe and there isn't on min. that I dont think about your perfect little smile and adorable laugh!! Me and daddy love you and ALWAYS ALWAYS WILL!! Like daddy said Id too would give anything to hold you again, I miss you sooo dang much! Thank your for the best 9 months of my life I am so privileged to be the mother of a perfect angel! You are my world and always will be!! I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMUCH BABY!!!!!XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOX
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happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday dear kaden.... happy....birthday tooooo youuu!!!
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Kaden Man- not a day goes by that we dont think about you. We miss your chubby cheeks so much! Watch over us and keep your cousin Jake strong and we'll meet your little sissy soon.
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Auntie erin
5 horrible months have gone by without you here...I hate it! Life has never been so difficult! Id give back everything I had if I could just have you!! I think of you daily but I know you know that because we talk!I am excited to meet your sister and hope she has beautiful blue eyes like you!!Having her doesn't make loosing you any easier..in fact its just kinda more difficult! :\ I am waiting on the day where I can breathe without it hurting entirely too much!! I love you with my whole heart and then some!! Miss you baby boy!!
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Mommy
hi baby boy its daddy i just want to tell you i love you and i absolutly miss your face so much i miss everything about you! i love you and i cant wait to see yu again even if it is for a single blink of the eyes!
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love daddy!
well my love its been one whole year....im so sorry! i absolutely miss you with all my being! i would give anything to hold you for even just one minuet! your my perfect little angel and we thank you and god for blessing us with lexie! youll always be my first baby! and first son! i just cant wait for the day i get to be with you again!
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love, daddy!
I can't believe it's been 2 long years since I've gotten to hold you, kiss you or see that beautiful face! I miss you more than I can begin to say. your sister brings me SO much joy..but just makes me miss you that much more. I am glad I have a little piece of you here still!! Please look out for her. Your memory lights up my heart. I love you so much Kaden boy!!! ILL LOVE YOU FOR EVER, ILL LIKE YOU FOR ALWAYS FOREVER AND EVER MY BABY YOULL BE!!!!!! Love mommy!!
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